The girl who’s waiting for marriage

I’ve barely done any game since November 2014. An internship to finish, a trip to India, and then writing my PhD confirmation report have gotten in the way.

But a few girls have found their way into my bed, and it’d be remiss of me not to put pen to paper now I’ve got this grand spankin’ new journal. So here’s the story of a nice Korean girl I daygamed way back in 2014.

Last year we had a date that was not only immediately sexual, and also highly enjoyable, since she’s a lovely, energetic girl. Some sushi and a drink or two in a bar, and she was rubbing my cock. Everyone was happy (except the bartender who seemed to think that was inappropriate – bah!).

Normally, it’d be “on”. But here’s the catch. She’s religious, and told me she wants to save herself for marriage (to this day I’m not sure if she meant that, or its just something she said to shift the blame for any misadventures away from herself). At the time I believed her, and I ruled sex out. Fuck me, the jesus cockblock gives me the shits! Dude has betrayed his gender.

But I think if you meet a girl you like, there’s nothing wrong with spending time with her – sex or no sex.

We hung out again and I told her about game. That I grew up an introvert, with little contact with women, and then learned game. Girls like it when you are real with them (since most guys aren’t), and I think being honest helps to build a good vibe. Personally I liked her, and I wanted her to know what she’s getting into, if she wanted to keep seeing me. We talked about what it’d be like if we had sex, how’d I watch her tits bounce up and down while she was on top of me. She constantly verbally rejected it whilst pushing her tits against me.

I went overseas and didn’t see her for a month.

When we next met up, we hung out in Carlton Gardens. We were getting pretty intimate, and she was nervous about it – new experiences and all. So I told her I wouldn’t have sex with her today, to help her relax. It got dark and we went back to my place for some coconut cocktails. Pretty soon we were on the bed and clothes were coming off. She gave me a BJ (freaking out the whole time), and then I offered to go down on her. She declined! Kinda funny, cos I almost never go down on girls, and the one time I offer I got shut down.

And then she asked me if I would fuck her. Hmmmm. Didn’t expect that. I was pretty much about to when I decided that doing so – after telling her I wouldn’t – would weigh pretty heavily on my conscience. So I didn’t.

And that’s the story of how I didn’t bang a girl who wanted me to. Chode.

But she came over a week later ‘for a film’. And she knew what she was gonna get. And she did.

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Date with a Bubbly Korean

Another good date that taught me a lot but about what I can do well and what I need to work on.

This girl was extremely short, and extremely touchy. Right from the initial daygame approach, she was kinoing me like a mad woman. She was super keen over txt too:

………

Her: Hi how are you~
Me: Great, having some pancakes with strawberries and chocolate
Her: Sounds yum J
Me: Yep! Whats your fave dessert?
Her: chocolate [heart] [heart] and cheese cake
Me: You chose two! Naughty!
Her: That’s right I’m a naughty girl
Me: No misbehaving or I’ll send you to the naughty corner

………

On the date she was touching me so much, and it was hard to stop myself from just grabbing her and kissing her straight away. I ate sushi, then we went to a bar and grabbed a corner couch. She was typically Korean in that she was obviously really enjoying herself, but would reject all sexual advances. She kept curling up to me and looking me right in the eyes, but would block all kiss close attempts. In the end I just did and she of course really liked it, but was annoyed at herself for giving up her power so quckly. After a couple of hours in the bar, I was rubbing her pussy, and she was touching my dick. I took her home but she wouldn’t fuck.

This is a typical problem I have, where I get good girls turned on, but their resolve to not fuck is too strong. In this case she’s a religious virgin, waiting for marriage to have sex (or so she claims). Now I feel I’ve ‘used up all my ammo’, so to speak, and probably won’t be able to fuck her. Its happened before. If I had to guess, I put my chances at 30%.

Good things from the date:

  • Storytelling to put her in another world. I had two stories going that put a real glint hin her eye. The first one is a true story of a rock climbing trip that I did, which is pretty ‘out there’ for most people. The second one was a fictional story about her and I at a party, with sexual overtones.
  • Emotional control to make her feel assured. A random down and out man at a tram stop tried to fuck with me on the date. It seemed she was feeling what I was feeling, so when I didn’t react she felt safe. People say that ‘girls ping off their environment’, and I see what they mean.
  • Building quick trust and a sexual bubble. I’m getting girls comfortable and sexual with me quicker than ever before.

Bad things from the date:

  • Too analytical, not in the moment enough. I kept trying to figure out what my next move would be, and I think she sensed this. In the future I’ll make more of an effort to relax and enjoy the moment.
  • I over invested in her toward the end of the date. This was when I realised I wasn’t going to fuck her, and was trying to build comfort to stop her ASD from getting the better of her the next morning.
  • Too impatient to escalate. Right now I’m really pushing my boundaries in rapid escalation. I’ve learnt how to build really quick attraction, and act on it. Its great fun, but I think I’ll learn a lot and my game will mature from slowing down, building more tension, and making the girl come to me. This will require discipline.

Quick Date with a Singaporean

Daygaming, I spotted this Singaporean in a cap and backpack, blue singlet and some red pants showing off lithe legs.

“Good afternoon, You’ve got a great outfit. You’re like a little school girl”.

The whole set was low key and pretty quickly we were off for a lemonade in Federation Square. But she seemed reserved and I couldn’t tell if she was into me or just bored and happy to hang out. So I tried to make it clear why I was grabbing her number.

Over txt she threw up a few little frame control games, but was also fishing to be taken out for a drink. In fact she was kinda annoying but I guess I need to get used to this and not let it get to me. So drinks were organised for her last night in Melbourne.

We didn’t meet til almost 9pm, and obviously I wanted to fuck her that night. So I decided the game plan was to get sexual early, move things along and get her home ASAP. It worked well. As soon as I met her, we were talking about how she likes dominant guys. She was throwing up all sorts of shit tests which helped build some attraction, and 20min into the first bar I went to kiss her. She kinda went for it, but wouldn’t open her mouth, so I told her that in 10min I’d expect her to do better. She did.

At the second bar, things got more sexual. She was letting me grab her ass and was playing with shirt. Things were looking good. But she was adamant that she didn’t have time to go home with me. And it was her last night in Melbourne! Bah! Game over!

But good girls aren’t always good girls, and the PUA gods are capricious.

At this point we’d been on the date about two hours. Not long, but we’d build a lot of good trust between us, and felt very comfortable with each other.

As we were walking home, we ducked into an alley to make out. I tried feeling her up and she didn’t seem to mind at all. I pulled her panties down and started fingering and she was telling me how she liked it! Things were looking up!

I’ve never fucked a girl off a Day 2 in an alley way before, and I’d love to do that.
Soon she was rubbing my cock, and telling me this was one of her fantasies. An Asian guy kinda saw what we were doing, but she didn’t realise, and we kept at it.

But despite everything I tried I couldn’t get the bang. So she’ll go home to Sydney and maybe I’ll have a go at long gaming her.

  • I learnt a huge amount from this date:
  • Frame controlling girls but annoying but best to ignore it and walk all over her frame
  • Build quick attraction by passing shit tests
  • Once attraction is there, don’t bother keep trying to get more of it. Instead build rapport and trust.
  • Be vulnerable and build trust. Its powerful and she’ll feel like she’s known you for way longer than she really has.
  • Push boundaries! Girls fuck quickly, especially if they’re not considering you for the boyfriend spot.
  • Good girls aren’t good girls. The last few girls I’ve pulled have, on the surface, seemed like girls that ‘don’t do things like that’. How wrong I was, every time.

Anyong Haseyo!

The usual bar with the usual crew.

Two Asian girls walked in, looking very Korean. I opened with that, they hooked easily, and Verity came in to talk over the top of me talk to them too*. However, the girls seemed to cautious to be separated, too doe-eyed to be pulled home that night, and were leaving for Sydney the next day. In light of the above, I decided the set was a dud and went back to chillin with da homies.


Da Homies

We had such a large crew, and that I constantly saw these girls talking to various guys from our group. Probably four or five of us approached them throughout the evening.
One guy (non-PUA) that came along that night is Brandon. Brandon is from my maths class. He is a little bit gangsta. When I met him, he always drank whiskey and coke. One night we were out and I bought him IPA (Indian Pale ale (pretty strong, flavoursome beer)) for the fun of it, not expecting him to like it. Somehow he did. Now he demands IPA at the bars we go to (usually the bartender is like ‘What is IPA???’).

So Brandon was buying IPA all night, and we were having a good time. Brandon ends up talking to the Koreans at one point, and then the bar closes and we decide to go downstairs for a drink and a chat. As we’re heading off, Brandon mentions we should bring them along, so we wait for them. They appear, with Verity, and we tell them to come along. They seem to consider but then Verity drags them off, so he wins that round.

Downstairs Verity is with the girls, but he wants a wing to help out. No one’s keen. When he realises they’re leaving the next day, I think he decided the set’s a dud too, and went to look for other prospects. Brandon and I grab more IPA, and then run into the Koreans. I know what to say to her so I just told her she looked good and if we were alone I’d grab her and kiss her. She didn’t object at all, so I did it, and she responded well. For next 10 minutes we talked about sex, and then I told her I wanted to take her elsewhere. She agreed.

Took her home and fucked her. No resistance.

So both Verity and I thought this girl was friendly but not DTF at all, and then it all it took was 10minutes of talking to her and she left her friend to fuck. Seems like a big big learning point.

The next day I called Verity to rub it in discuss this*.

*Any cuntery in the above post is in good fun.

Nightgame Field Report

In the interest of using my time more wisely, I have decided to start working smarter on my hobbies.

For example, often when my mates and I go climbing, we roll into the gym, pick something to climb that looks fun, start cranking, get tired, go home. No warm up, no plan, no focus. Repeat 3 times a week. That’s the way to get an injury, not the way to send hard routes.

With pick up, I plan to break down my interactions more.

Since I’m focusing so much on night game at the moment, I’ll talk about last weekend, where I went out both Friday and Saturday.

Friday night:

The first mistake was drinking way too much at my place. Once in the bars, I felt I was too drunk to interact with girls, and pretty much didn’t do any sets. Not the end of the world cos it was still a fun night.

Saturday night:

This was a bit of a poor effort. I choded out a lot. Only did a handful of approaches. One set I remember being brought into

Me: Hey how are you?
Her: I’m good, you?
Me: Oh, not that good
Her: Why’s that
Me: I’ve waiting for you to buy me a drink.

I think the set went on afor a little longer, but was’t all that good. Overall I blame it on a weak attempt at being cocky/funny and high value.

Toward the end of the night, a mate and I had a good set with two girls. I isolated my girl really quickly, something I seem to do well – but I in the future I want to spend more time engaging the group to challenge myself. Once isolated, it was basically just running some of my usual gambits:

  • Compared her to a zebra (she had a black and white striped skirt on
  • Ask her what animal she would like to be to get a sense of her personality
  • Then tried the hypnotic scanning thing and tried to transition into a mke out, which she didn’t quite go for, I think because her friend was like a meter away and we weren’t in a bright area that didn’t create much of a discrete atmosphere
  • After a few more minutes, told her I wanted to take her for a coffee. She did the ‘oh i don’t know, i need to think about it’ thing, which is basically her trying to seem hard to get (and failing)

It was a stock standard set for me. Basically run some attraction quickly and then relax and NFU. They are enjoyable sets but not much of a challenge.

So there you have it. Not the most interesting field report, cos I don’t remember much of the weekend. But hopefully writing these things out will make me focus on my weaknesses more

Capture the Flag – France

Third time lucky

 
One night the Dragons – at our favourite bar – decided to perform some ‘betagame’, with the intention of finding out if the font of game knowledge is really correct.

(We were about 4 pints to the better)

First set: “Hi girls, we thought you’re absolutely gorgeous, would it be ok if we bought you a drink?”

They walked off – conclusion: betagame is a fail.

Next set: “Hi girls, we thought you’re absolutely gorgeous, would be it be ok if we bought you a drink?”

I don’t remember the details, but the girls hooked and I wound up with a solid number off one of them. Enter ‘betagame girl’

Fast forward two weeks. I’ve finished my one exam, and the filo girl that I really like has left the country. I’ve got a huge backlog of girls to date (defile). So I sent out a message to a few of few of them, asking when they’re free. They all replied back: ‘busy every day this week except Thursday’.

So I guess I had to pick and choose the best prospects. I told a Colombian to meet me in the afternoon on Thursday, and a Swede to meet me in the evening. The other girl – ‘betagame girl’ would have to wait (she seemed the most flakey). However the Swede was ill and cancelled. So betagame girl was moved into pole position – Thursday evening.

As it happened, the Colombian stood me up – but I was kinda happy about that anyway cos I was feeling lazy. So that’s two flakes in one day. Women are useless. However, betagame girl came to the rescue though, not flaking and being only 30min late.

I was expecting a half-caste girl who – I was 90% sure – was from Belgium. Other than that I could remember nothing about her. I was totally wrong on both of these points – she was very pale, and actually French, but with frizzy hair and a perfect ass.

We sat for about an hour and half in a café, me chugging beers and her slowly sipping a wine. It was all eye contact and leading the conversation. I find that learning to lead a conversation can be really effective in developing the masculine-feminine vibe on a date. I’ll work on it more in the future.

She was ready to be kissed, but it seemed a bit awkward in the café. Plus, at the moment I’m trying to hold off on making out until the perfect moment (ie the moment that gets me laid) We went down the road to a more intimate bar. After 15min of chatter, I pulled her in to kiss, and she melted.

Half way through our drinks, I suggested listening to some music back at mine, and she was like “Really?”, like she was the luckiest girl in the world.

So we headed off and I got the lay – no resistance. Probably 2.5hrs from meeting her to getting her back to mine.

Afterwards, we put on some electronic music, and she danced for me. The image of that perfect French ass gyrating in front of my face is something I’ll remember for a long time to come!

The two big takeaways for me are :

1.       Don’t be afraid to pull girls home quickly on a day 2
2.       Use conversation to develop polarity. No need to be making out all the time.

I’m actually wondering if the second bar was necessary. Maybe I could’ve pulled her home after the café, prior to making out with her.

Tack För Sverige

Quarter 4 of 2014 has kicked off bang (actually a few of them).

Saturday night saw me getting rummy – extremely rummy! – at a party. Around midnight the team jumped in a car to one of the local rehydration stations bars.

There was a bit of a line to get in (bad). But we were waiting behind some swedish girls (good). Three of us, and three of them. I ended up talking to a tall, sexy girl with dark hair and strong blue eyes. She wasn’t bitchy… but a bit defiant. Her eye contact was pretty strong. She’d make strong, resistant eye contact with me, and I think it was all so she could be slapped down. Enjoyable. Like Taylor wrote, its great when girls challenge you.

I tried on some of Krauser’s eye mesmer/hynotic scanning routines, and they worked a charm- we were making out before we’d made it into the venue.

I think the seduction was over by this point. She went to the toilets and then danced with her friends. She’d try to get my attention whenever I was around. We danced a bit and I hung out with some other girls to try to get a jealousy plotline going but was probably unnecessary. Also I had some more beers which was definitely unnecessary!

Took her to a couch, where she wanted to put her number in my phone. Instead I wanted to put her in a taxi to my place, and so I did.

The sex was dirty, sordid and grotty. I liked it. Like having a kebab at 4am.

LMR Battles

Good girls aren’t really good girls.

Met this girl in a bar. She’s on holiday for a couple of weeks, got a boyfriend back home. A total good girl. A little shy, goes to church. Tells me she won an award for being the most well behaved student in high school.

And totally addicted to dominant bad boys. I’ve met her type before. Despite her extreme sweetness, she’s got a cheeky side to her I love.

We talk for 10 minutes in the bar, and I tell her I want to kiss her. Her response:’No my friend will see’.

The next morning she starts messaging me. We arrange to meet the following evening. I’m excited. Really super excited. Firstly, I’m back into the game in a big way. Everything in life is going well right now. I want to meet girls! Secondly, there’s something about pulling another’s man’s girl that I crave. That’s a bit of an inner game issue; something I should deal with. Personally I don’t care about sleeping with taken girls – its dark but if they’re gonna cheat, they’re gonna cheat. But I don’t like the idea that I’m excited about taking something that belongs to another guy. Points to some lack of self-worth like I need validation not just from pulling women, but from pulling other men’s women.

We meet up, get some sushi and a beer. Inane chatter. She tells me she lost her virginity in a toilet at age 14. I tell her how I used to be super shy and got used to socialising as much as possible (of course she doesn’t believe me).

She’s fucking cute by the way. Absolutely tiny.

As we head for the next bar, I try on a little kiss close gambit, and she resists. At the next bar, resistance is dialed up to 11. She won’t sit near me, definitely won’t kiss, but still it just seems like she’s up for it. I’m getting a little frustrated though. Her friend calls her to try and get her to meet for a drink but she won’t leave. She starts hitting me and trying to pinch me. She’;s doing it all the time, and I get annoyed, grab her arms, her push her down on the couch and kiss her.

She’s into it. In a big way. But as soon as we stop, she goes quiet and into deep thought. I guess her boyfriend is on her mind, but later I find out what it really is. We make out, drink and talk. It’s cool, I like her. We grab more beer and go to my place.

Thus commences the LMR battle to end all LMR battles. She’s highly resistant to kissing, and keeps telling me half-heartedly that she has a boyfriend. But when I do occaisionally get her kissing, she’s uncontrollable.

Each time we have 2 minutes of intense making out, then she flips out. I notice the more dominant I am, the more I just ignore her protests, the more she likes it.

“I have a boyfriend”
“Shhh – kiss my neck”
Obeys

She puts no effort to try and remove herself from the bedrooms, and keeps drinking so I’m just taking that as a sign to keep escalating.

But she won’t remove her goddamn dress. Just will not do it. After an hour of this back and forth, I’m on my knees on the bed and pull her against me (she’s tiny). She’s so into it, and I’m fucking determined to get that dress on. I’m pulling it off and she’s pulling it on.

“I’m gonna take this thing off!” Give her the eye mesmer. “I’ll rip it if I have to”.

And she lets me take it off.

Soon her tits are out. Progress.

But it’s still 1 step forward, 1 step backward. She’s seriously stubborn. Another hour goes by, a couple of freeze outs, and there’s no way she’ll let me get those panties off. But she makes no effort to leave whatsoever.

She needs to let her boyfriend know where she is. Phone comes out.

After 2 hrs I’ve given up. Its not happening. I still had a good time with her, but I’m not getting anywhere! Its frustrating. I start going to sleep and she lies next to me. Occaisionally we kiss a little, but that’s it.

She’s holding my hand and rubbing it a little.

‘Give it one more go’ I think. We start kissing, and soon she’s on top of me rubbing her pussy on my cock (panties still on). I’m fingering her pussy and she’s moaning hard. I go to pull the panties off and she’s pulls them back on. FUCK! I pull them off. She pulls them on.

I try to pull them off.

Something snaps…

She helps me get them off quick smart and jumps on top of me, looks at me, and asks if I want to do this.

Yes.

After 3hrs of anticipation, my dick is ready to explode  – 3hrs of hard work, 20seconds of sex! WOO!

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This taught me a fucking heap about game.

Outer game:
-There are no good girls.
-Taken girls can be escalated faster.
-If she’s in the bedroom, keep escalating.
-Women will cheat. I don’t want to get cheated on. The only solution I see to this is to choose very carefully which girls I bring into my life, and to get very good at game.

Inner game
-I love these sweet girls with a hidden bad side.
-Getting enjoyment out of taking another man’s woman is not the way to a whole some life. It screams of taking value. A demon to be slayed.
-Some girls shouldn’t be touched. This may have been one of them. She’s already way attached to me. But I don’t have the will power to not sleep with them. Not at the moment, maybe not ever.

A man has to have principles. As it stands, I try to always let a girl know that I’m unlikely to be monogamous with her, prior to sleeping with her (not 100% there yet).

With taken women, I think more principles need to be added.
-No cutting another man’s lunch because I can – it has to be about the girl.
-Nothing that could break up a family.
-Not playing a girls emotions to make her get attached to me when I don’t have the attention of giving her a relationship.
-No girls that are with guys I know, whether I like them or not.

Some of these are easier to stick to than others. I like to think that once day I’ll get to the point where knowing I could pursue a girl is enough, without having to do it.

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Anyway, it was a huge emotional battle. So many ups and downs. The resulting dopamine hit/adrenal rush has put me on a natural high for 24hrs so far and still going storng. It feels good. Really good.

The next day the Dragons congregated for a celebratory milkshake. Those are good guys, they’ve helped me a lot in getting to this point, and I wanted to thank them for that, so the milkshakes were on me.

Dragons attack!

Measured by volume of sets, no. of daygame milkshakes consumed, or quantity of porker’s approached, this was a big weekend!

6pm Friday saw me meeting up with Shaz, for a refreshing milkshake (MS #1), and a quick bit of daygame. During Shaz’s first set, some dude came up to me to tell me he was mighty impressed with Shaz’s balls for approaching a girl like that. Thought of the day: Random dude is impressed  by Shaz complimenting a random female stranger, but thought nothing of complimenting a random male stranger?

I was feeling a bit nervous, but went to chat to a couple of tanned girls, who turned out to be younger than what I usually go for. Sixteen is too young for me personally, so I left quite quickly. Gus – a young guy new to the game and a colleague of Shaz joined us for his first ever daytime set. For a 19yr old he’s a bit of a gunner, full of confidence and charisma. Watching him in action was good, because he committed all sorts of technical issues that have become instinctually part of my daygame method.

Pretty soon, we we’d had enough DG, and it was decided that prior to nightgaming, we should all go to my place to get on the piss and hang out. I’ve recently moved into this inner city dump; total shithole but its made up for by its excellent location, allowing minimal travel for me to get to work, to gym, to the bars, to jiu jitsu, and to climbing. There’s a decent bar 20m from my house, and bottle store another 10m away. And an Indian supermarket full of delicious $2 curry. I’m sure its gonna see a lot of Friday and Saturday night action from our crew (affectionately and somewhat ironically called the Red Dragons – until we come up with something better).

1 six pack later…

Gus had to roll off due to work, so Shaz and I headed to the Lion. We went straight for the dancefloor, which Slider and another friend had nicely warmed up. So our group of four, plus some random hangers on – was loud and in charge in the centre of the DF. I was feeling drunk and arrogant at this point, and it really felt (to me at least) like we could do no wrong. Like a force of nature, wherever I went people were reacting to me and every group of girls seemed to be IOIing.

It was that perfect amount of drunkeness that makes me super confident but not annoying. If I could replicate that attitude while sober, I would be set.

However, results weren’t all that forthcoming, and the Dragons decided to head to ABC. Shaz pulled me into that typical nightgame conundrum where there’s one porker and one hottie. I was with the porker. I was drunk, she had a cute face, and was from the Philippines (a new country for me), so logic seemed to dictate “fuck my dignity, I’ll escalate hard”. This was the first time I was trying out a new method, which is basically escalate covertly so only you and her know whats going on, and her friends have no idea. The idea is that it builds a lot of tension because the girl wants to kiss you but you don’t let her. At the same time its exciting cos you’re saying inappropriate things or grabbing her ass and yet no one else has any clue whats going on.

To give some idea of this:

  • “Oh you’re a nurse? I’m going to be a doctor. If we hang out, it’ll be like a porno I watched. “
  • “You just rubbed your tits on my arm. That’s nice”
  • “I want to feel your tits. Turn around so your friend doesn’t notice”

I tried to do bad things to her in the toilets, but she ran away.

At this point it was only Slider and I remaining. Next we went to Toff (I think). I don’t remember a whole lot of this, but there was a fun set with a Colombian whose number I grabbed, and hopefully that’ll lead somewhere good. Energy levels started to drop and we parted ways, planning to go hard the next day.
Also, at some point Slider and I ended up in a big set of headscarf girls, and I think they loved it. I was drunk and don’t remember that much of it, so Slider, if you’re reading this, provide a breakdown, cos I am interested to hear what happened.

The following day…

Slider and I failed at fixing my car, and decided to day game instead. We saw a super tall Aussie girl that I was too scared to approach and that’s a real shame. Instead we went a got another milkshake (MS #2). The girls in that shop know me so well, and I’ve even been clubbing with them, such is my milkshake consumption.

We didn’t do that many sets, but as a first set I tried to pull a headscarf girl. It was not bad, but not good enough to grab a number, and she didn’t seem dtf anyway. After a few more sets I think we got tired and went to get beer at some point, then ran into heaps of other PUAs in fed square.

Next on the agenda was a date with a Japanese girl I’d met earlier that week. She tried to bring friends along, which I really wasn’t in the mood for, and told her that. So thankfully, she turned up alone. We had a pleasant evening sipping a beer in fed square. Her English is horrible, but she’s got a lovely personality and tight body, so everyone was happy. It was just a short date to get on her radar since she’s going on holiday for two weeks. Job done. She wouldn’t kiss though, but said next time she wanted to, if that means anything.

Then back to meet Slider, who had caught up with Shaz and Nick- who was drinking his fourth Mother of the day! We headed back to the dump for rock n roll and more beers. This was good. Feeling refreshed, we all headed to rooftop. Well not quite. We lost Nick on the way (hope you’re alive bro), and Slider got stuck in the queue, which was my fault (sorry man), and had to wait for ages to get in. But Shaz and I slipped past security super quick, and started smashing set after set after set! The beers were really setting in at this point. A few memorable sets:

  • Shaz and I told some girls we wanted to practise trying to pick them up, then said inappropriate things to them, such as ‘Hi – You’ve got nice tits. We wanted to say hello’. It seemed ok but we didn’t really push it anywhere.
  • A hot german girl threw herself at me, but despite how keen she seemed, I couldn’t get her to make out. Does that happen to anyone else? I have her number but I’ll be fucked it I can remember what I saved it as, so I doubt that’ll go anywhere.
  • I met some random dude and then opened a couple of Phillapino’s and pulled him in. He tried to take the hot one, and I decided ‘that shall not do’. He was an alright guy, but tried too hard to impress her with his dancing. I like to think I’ve got a LOT of experience pulling Asians, so grabber her back. It was kinda loud, so I used that old Mystery line on her friend ‘hey its loud over here, ok if i take your friend over there and chat for a couple of minutes? Cool?’. Works well. She had a boyfriend but was still keen. I told her I wanted to kiss and her and she said ‘not here, my friend will see’. Fair enough. She’s chasing hard over txt now. I’ve never gotten a taken girl out on a date, and to be frank, it excites me. Post set, Shaz informed that he was distracting her friend like a champ – Red Dragons running like a well oiled machine! Thanks bro!
  • Later down in Toff, a three set of mexican’s. It was dark, and I couldn’t see well/was drunk so I just chose one of them to target. Well it turned out the other two were hot and the one I chose was a porker, so that sucked. It didn’t stop me and I tried to pull her in the toilet, but no good. I think she got angry cos I made out with heaps of other girls in front of her later on.
  • A two set of Swedes were both really into me. All my friends had left at this point so there was no one to bring into the set. Neither girl was going to let the other have me alone, so I was thinking ‘how do i solve this problem’. The phrase ‘hot swedish lesbians’ came into my mind and I grabbed both their hands for a double salsa spin, then put their hands on my ass, and grabbed both of their cute little butts. They didn’t seem to mind, so I tried to get a three way make out going, and they weren’t having a bar of it lol. We hung out for a bit, but later in the night I saw them again and they were really cold. Oh well!
  • Ended up in a set of four local girls. One was keen to dance, and quite nice. It was her birthday in fact, and she had a great personality for an Aussie toff girl. We actually had more a daygame style conversation. I really liked her. She bought me a beer that I didn’t need and we hung out on the balcony. I took the jerk route – telling her she’s a bitch and so on and so forth, which is always a good way to spike girls. 80% of my material is either ‘you’re a bitch’ or ‘your tits are nice’. Its all you need. She made me promise to call her next week and then went off to find her friends who seemed to have left. Its a shame I couldn’t get her home.

A few more sets, and then home to be met with a big hangover the next morning. It was a really awesome night and I enjoyed all this ridiculous shit that was going on.

After breakfast, into the CBD for a coffee with Vangaurd. On the way to meet him, I opened a super cute Chinese girl who was with a friend. I made a mistake here, spiked way too hard and they ran off. I kept telling her I didn’t believe she was Chinese and she shouldn’t be such a dirty liar. The girls were like ‘OMG OMG’, and then ran away, haha.

After coffee, another milkshakje (MS #3). Addict.


Daygame – what i actually do

Later I wanted to meet the Japanese girl from the previous day, and she agreed. She was late and whilst I was waiting, I opened a Vietnamese girl sitting next to me. Seemed to go well, but she wouldn’t give up the number. Either my calibration is off and she wasn’t that into me, or something else was going on. Does that happen to other guys? You’re sure she’s into you and yet she won’t give up the number?

The date with the Japanese girl was cool, but again she wouldn’t kiss and that’s annoying.  My usual method with shy girls is to just dominate and overwhelm, but it was a no go. So Shaz suggested I try the good ol’ freezeout, which seems like a good idea, so long as I don’t come across as a sulky little child. I also came up with a cool routine which I may as well describe.

  • Start describing the scene around you. For example ‘smell the coffee, feel the warmth of the mug. Listen to the noises around us. The background chatter, the coffee machine, the air conditioner. Can you hear it all? What else can you hear? Feel the hard seat beneath you, feel your socks against your toes.
  • Describe the concept of ‘being totally present’, not worrying about the future or the past. Just being immersed in the current moment, where nothing matters.
  • Segue into how climbing makes you present, because its requires all your attention to stay alive. “When you’re 50m off the ground, totally alone, your blood pumping and your heart beating, you’re not worrying about your assignment or the arguement you had with your fried last week. The sun shining on the back of your neck, there’s a beautiful view below you, and the winds is cool on your face. But the only important thing is pulling off that next move, and not falling off. “
  • Then describe the same thing that happens during sex. “Its just you and one other person – the rest of the world doesn’t exist. Its so intense, so pleasurable, so full that your mind switches off, and your body takes over – total instinct. You’re like an animal’.

Someone with better descriptive skills than me could probably articulate that a bit better than I do. Seems to work well.

Daygame issues and street kiss closes

So this was something I wrote up a few weeks back, but wasn’t quite happy with the writing quality. Still, poor quality is better than nothing, so I’ll post as is.

Daygame Issues:
I’ve been having some issues approaching over the last month or two, and its taken a while to figure out the cause. Its not approach anxiety per se, but an ego-investment in being good at daygame. This has led me to fear rejection because it means I’m not good at daygame. Once I figured this out, it was like a weight had been taken off my shoulders. It was ok to go out and rejected again. The ego is a slippery little bugger, always finding ways to protect your identity.

Despite this, or maybe because of it, my number closing rate has been remarkably good this year. I reckon I’m closing 30%+ of sets in any given week. Most don’t flake. I will never have to worry about being able to get dates again.

Daygame session 31st Ausgust
This was another great session. The first few sets started off slow though. I’m starting to think that the streets of Melbourne have been yad stopped out, such is the behaviour of the current crop of approach machines doing ‘high volume’ – I’m hardly above such behaviour though. Girls are no longer curious as to why you’re running after them, and half of them will walk off before you get the opener out. That’s ok though, it just means that its back to the drawing board for a new approach. Despite the slow start, the session was capped off with a hat trick of solid sets.

Solid set #1
After picking up a refreshing milkshake, I spotted a nice Asian and asked her about the frozen yoghurt she was eating. This set went exceptionally well. It got sexual pretty quickly:
“I’d love to go on holiday to Nicaragua”
“What would you do there?”
“They make a lot of cigars there. I can see myself lying on the beach, enjoying the warmth of the sun and smoking a fat cigar, listening to the waves crash on the sand, checking out the girls”
There was a real atmosphere of familiarity between us, and I was getting strong eye contact off her. It just seemed like she might be up for making out, so I told her I was going to kiss her (we had a running joke that I’ve never kissed a girl before). I grabbed her hand as I did so, and she looked around to see who was watching, but left her hand in place. She wouldn’t kiss but kept poking me and touching me afterward – tells me she was interested but not quite up for it.

 

Solid set #2
We popped into some Chinese store to look at some candy they were selling. A nice looking girl in short shorts seemed like a good victim choice, but as I was going in, a classy looking filly in heels caught my eye and I changed course. She was extremely well dressed, and had those well-to-do facial features you associate with money. She turned out to be extremely ditzy and after 10minutes I took a pretty solid number, with the shopkeeper giving my wing dirty looks for taking photos of the whole thing. Here’s one of them.

My dong is this big!

Solid set #3
Worn out from all the walking, we headed to Melbourne Central to grab some food and sit down, where we bumped into 50 PUAs. At the top of the escalator to the food court was a Japanese girl in a scarf that looked like it was out of a posh British woman’s wardrobe. She was informed of that, and loved it. In fact everything I said was hitting hard, and you can see from this photo how much she’s enjoying it.

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Eye contact was strong.
“You’ve got nice eyes – deep and brown”
*giggle* “Thanks”
“I’m going to kiss you”
*looks away “What? Kiss me??”
I hold out my hand and she takes it, then pull her in to make out. She’s kinda nervous about the whole thing, but enjoys it and gives me a big hug when I leave.
Score! My third street kiss close, and fastest yet. Too bad all the PUAs and my wing missed it.

Summary
-I need to work on killing my daygame ego.

-Street kiss close is very possible, if you have the right girls and know what to do. I’ve got a bit of a method for how I do it now, and might write it all down and post it up on the lair to see what people think