Some daygame videos

Months ago I bought a spycam, and was really excited to start making videos of myself hitting the streets. Like a lot of things, the excitement wears off when you realise its not as easy as it sounds. After a big session of daygaming, the last thing you want to do is sit around re listening to conversations that you already had, particularly when there’s whiskey and cigars in the living room to be enjoyed. On top of that, listening to my own voice is not pleasant. And don’t get me started on the blow out videos… watching those is more painful than the original experience.

Nonetheless, its a good tool, and I should be using it. So here are a few videos. Some hits, and some misses.

  • 0:00 Had a cold and wasn’t in the mood to be daygaming. But I got a just noticeable IOI from this girl as I was crossing the road, and decided to give it a shot
  • 0:40 She’s already trying to walk off. Calling her a tourist delays that a little.
  • 0:50 I’m using too many drawn out ‘ooohs’, ‘wow’s, and other unnecessary words (totally, like, etc)
  • 0:52 In the future I’ll try to phrase questions as statements  ‘You must be from…’ or real questions ‘Oh, are you from…’ not this wishy-washy ‘Oh you are from…’
  • 1:10 Pretty standard tease and assumption. Ultimately doesn’t go anywhere.
  • 1:36 The eyes and smile suggest that shes enjoying the interaction, but in reality she was edging away, and I think she was amused rather than attracted.

A false assumption stack that makes the girl defend herself is actually a good idea when the girl wants to walk off straight away. That was not deliberate in this case.

Here’s a cute German bird. The video is way too close to get her facial reactions, but the audio is fine.

  • 0:27 I could really be getting a lot more out of these openers. I’m talking to quickly, and not putting enough content in there.
  • 0:43 Straight away she’s helping me out, but also trying to lead the conversation.
  • 2:17 Need to stop talking about boring shit
  • Throughout this video I’ve been way too quick to fill gaps in the conversation.

Next time I’ll put up some videos where I close, just to prove I’m not totally shite. 

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Korea Stories

I’m back from Korea – here’s a summary of PUA related events.

After a horrible flight, I was met by Grey at Incheon airport. Grey is a girl that I daygamed ages ago with Vanguard, but didn’t try to bang due to her having a cold. She was really nice to me the whole trip, and will come up later on in this report. After I hung out with her for most of the day, I wanted to do some day game. First set was a Korean that almost hooked (the closest I got to hooking a Korean on the whole trip). Next up was a well dressed Russian that I instadated for a couple of hours, but couldn’t kiss (what do you expect – she’s Russian).

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The Russian

Never heard from her again.

Few days later I met a Korean girl called Yujin. I thought about chasing her, but decided against it (she was massively religious, and a bit older than me). I felt I didn’t need to pursue every single girl that I meet. Yujin showed me lots of cool stuff in her town. She also gave me the meal of my live – live Octopus!. I spent a couple of days doing stuff with her, and it was really awesome.

I left Yujin’s town and went back to Seoul, where I met up with Grey for a late dinner. I then took her back to my hostel dorm, to grab a jacket. The dorm is on the third floor, and in the elevat0r I started kissing Grey (note that Koreans DON’T kiss in public, so that was the first time I’d kissed her on that date). As soon as I kissed her, she pushed herself against me, and I realised she was ready to be fucked. But my dorm was way too full. I had nowhere to take her. We got back in the elevator, and I told her were going on an adventure. I hit the 17th floor button, and it seemed to be a floor of apartments. It was pretty dark in the corridor, and after midnight, so I thought it would be ok to fuck her there. As I’m sucking on her tits, someone comes out of a room and busts us. Dammit! We kind of try to hide (which is impossible in the corridor) and once they dude leaves, we carry on. I’ve got her tights off, and my cock out. I’m about to stick it in when another door opens and we’re busted again! Millimetres away from banging! This time she’s spooked and wants to leave. So we go for coffee, which is not as sex.

The following night, Yujin took me out for dinner in Gangnam (she really liked me and paid for a lot of my shit). I decided to kiss her, and that went down well. Though she was the most retarded kisser of all time. I told her to come with me to a club nearby where I meeting a dude from Darwin (not a PUA). The club was epic. Really upmarket. I’ve never been somewhere where packs of ciggies are free. It also had a swimming pool, and tons of hot Korean birds. We rocked it.

Gangnam style

My experience with Korean clubs is that in the uni clubs, the guys are dicks to Westerners, who they see as competition to their girls. But in the luxury clubs, everyone wants to meet the Westerner (or maybe I was just drunk). Anyway, had a ball in that club (despite having to kick Yujin out so I could meet more girls). I only made out with one girl (as I said, hard to make out with Koreans anywhere that’s not private). I totally lost track of her, but happened to run into her as we were leaving, where I grabbed her facebook, and also ended up getting a taxi with her friends, who were going back to the same district as us.

The next day I was really hungover. Yujin took me out for lunch, and then I ran off to meet up with Se Yoon, the girl from the night before. She was kind of weird, and a bit cold. s
he was worried that I was a player. I told her I was, and she seemed to like the honesty. She kept asking me how many Korean girls I was sleeping with on my trip. She kept demanding to hear about the last girl I’d banged, so I told her about getting caught having sex with Grey two days earlier. Then we made out.

Aside: This is where I realised that there is absolutely no need to try and present yourself in a clean light to girls you want to fuck. No need at all. 

I didn’t bang Se Yoon either. By the end of the night she seemed to really like me, and kept putting her head on my shoulder. She had to go home though, as apparently her parents are really strict (and she still hadn’t been home since the night before in the club). She said she wanted to meet the next day, but that didn’t happen due to a few reasons.

It was pretty late by this point, and I wanted to go back to my hostel and eat some food and sleep. Hin wanted to go out though, and I agreed. We got some chicken and went to a local K pop club. There were very few hotties, and except for two stunning Koreans (found out one was a model), who seemed to be hanging around with an obese Canadian. Hin and I were awestruck by those girls immediately. They were by far the hottest girls in the club. Two chodes were seated between us and the hotties. Randomly, the hotter of the two leaned across the chodes and asked me where I’m from.

Later Hin and I were on the dancefloor, and I opened the set. It went well, and Hin was talking with his girl, and I was dancing with the model. The fat Canadian kept getting in the way all night. Things were going swimmingly, and my girl was getting pretty dirty. I was really hoping for SNL at this point, but we couldn’t figure out what to do about the Canadian.

The girls wanted to go do karaoke, and this is where things went badly. I was super hungover, and I don’t like karaoke at the best of times. My girl sensed this and that I was only coming along for the lay. I had lost the frame and with it, my girl. Girls of that calibre are finely attuned to whats going on, and this one picked up on it immediately. She was really cold toward me from then on. A valuable lesson. Hin still seemed to be doing ok. I think he saw his girl again, but didn’t bang.

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The DMZ

The next day was my last in Korea. I met up for lunch with Grey, and took her back to my new hostel (where I had a private room). But she was ill, and had a birthday party on in an hour, so she was 100% not going to do anything more than kiss.

I was a little sad at this point. 10 days in Korea, and whilst it wasn’t a sex holiday, I would’ve liked to fuck one girl. I’d even failed to fuck this girl, who I’d fucked in Melbourne a few months earlier (she did take me to spiderman IMAX). Yujin and her friend wanted to meet near my hostel to see a concert. I went with them, not planning on banging Yujin. After a while, Yujin’s friend left. I told Yujin to come back to my room (she was so into me this was not hard), where I was planning on making out with her before sending her off. Pretty quickly we were banging though, and there was my Korean lay.

When I was kissing her, she did something so retarded that I almost threw her out. I have now learned that I am extremely turned off by unintelligent girls.

Got up early next morning. Flight home as shit as flight there.

More fun daygaming

Damn, I’m heading off to Korea on Friday, and I really wanna get up to date before that. Lots of writing to do.

Saturday I woke up and was a bit hungover. I had to meet a girl at 11am, and since it was 10.30 by the time I made it out of bed, I clearly wasn’t gonna make that. Told her I was gonna be late, got my shit together and jumped on a tram. Funnily enough, there was a cute looking Malay girl on the tram, so I decided to say hello. My voice was super deep from last night’s boozing, and she must have dug it, cos I was getting some good eye spazzing off her. We both jumped off at Flinders St, where I was meeting my girl (C, from the last post). I took the Malay girl’s number. Thankfully C did not see that happen.

Hung out with C for a while. We ate some Korean and saw an exhibition, which was fun for both of us, but not worth writing about. Next it was time to start daygaming. I met up with one dude, then another and another, our group progressively getting larger til there was five of us. Quite a few new guys as well, and all seemed like nice chaps that I hope to get a beer in the future. I did not get much time to hang out with them, as you will soon see.

So the first set of the day (besides girl-on-tram) was some Asian girl that I’d seen wandering around earlier in the day and thought was cute. When I approached, she didn’t hook, so I met up with the group again, and we started walking down Swanston. Soon, we passed Super-Hot-Frenchie, whose looks were pulling me over to her like a magnet. My better friends on this forum will know why:

That hair! I'll take three

That hair! I’ll take three, thanks

Eventually she hooks, and I move her over to the side of the street. We’re chatting away, and the girl says she’s just arrived in Melbourne, and is only here for two more days, both of which are taken up with trips to some of Victoria’s better tourist attractions. ‘Ok’, I think, ‘better instadate’. So we grab a take away coffee from Babsies (Brother Baba’s) and wander up to my favourite laneway for quick daygame kiss closing. Which is exactly what I do.

These are some of my favourite things

These are some of my favourite things

I lead her round the city, with her telling me about growing up on a farm, interspersed with the occaisional make out. After a quick drink at a reggae bar, she wants to take a nap at her hostel, and I wanna rest up for another date that evening (which goes nowhere).

I don’t manage to see her again, and I’m not sure if that’s due to over escalation or just her busy schedule.

I wonder if other pick up dudes have lists of girls that they didn’t bang but would’ve loved to. I certainly do. On that list, this girl comes in at No. 2 (after the Miss China winner I instadated a while back). Goddamn it!

More Tales From Swanston St

I’m really into exotic girls, and after reading my super dooper new daygame book (by My Nick Krauser), I’ve been inspired to try and get a muslim girl. I believe the sentence that inspired me goes something like this:

I used to believe I couldn’t pick up Muslim girls. Then I banged a couple of them, and I realised I should do it more often

Or something. 

I’ve seen a few cute such girls around, but didn’t have the balls to approach. Then, when I’m out on Thursday with Verity, one ambles past. There hadn’t been many girls out that I was keen on, so despite Verity giving me an odd look, I thought:

Fuck it, I’m goin’ in.

I went kinda direct (in hindsight maybe not a great ploy), and just as I was getting my opener out (‘ you look great in this dress’), someone slaps me on the arse with a book. Out of the corner of my eye, I see who it is. It is C, from my last entry. It would be better if she didn’t see me daygaming other girls. Bugger. Furthermore, I am standing in the exact same spot that I approached C in, outside her uni. Fuck. 

C keeps walking, and I turn my attention back to the Muslim chick. At this point headscarf’s like ‘wtf mate?’, and walks off as quickly as possible. 

Not the greatest of outcomes. 

To cut a long story short, C calls me late the next day, and wants to catch up that weekend. We eat korean and I feel her up in an alleyway. Pervert. 

Stay tuned, for more TALES… OF… A DAYGAME NOOB

I clack another massuese

I already posted about this girl – lets call her Blue. She’s a tall girl from Hong Kong that I daygamed one afternoon before class, and kiss closed very quickly (sub 20min). She works as a massuese and her English is fucking terrible. I was kinda expecting her to flake due to the very quick escalation, but in the end, things worked out.

Over txt she says she’s not free until a Saturday that is over a week away (she works six days a week, until 9pm usually, she says). When that Saturday rolls around, she says she’ll be free after 10pm. I call her then, but she doesn’t answer my call. I’m not surprised at all, though I’m not too bothered because I’ve had another girl (call her C) in my bed that evening. So I decide it’ll be more efficient to find new girls than to bother with her, and that’s that.

A week later, C has taken me out for dinner, cos she’s nice like that. Side note: I find out that yes, squid tentacles and ox tongue are delicious. I’m trying to stuff C in a taxi and take her back to mine, but she wants to get a cocktail and go home to rest or some shit. I suspect if i’d been more dominant I coulda gotten away with it, but then Blue messages me:

I’m at the lion, come and meet me

A msg this late at night, from this girl can only mean one thing. Suddenly I’m not that bothered about C coming home with me. So we grab a cocktail real quick, and I bail to the Lion. She’s waiting for me next to the door, and introduces me to her two friends. One has a boyfriend, and the other seems to be super keen for some Australian cock. I take my girl over to the dancefloor, and start escalating very quickly. She’s horny. Soon I’m fingering her, and its looking like the happy ending will come my way.

Then things go badly. Her friends want to dance, and we have to mind their stuff, so I can’t extract. Her English is shit, and there’s not much to talk about. As the night gets later, the mood disappears, and I go home alone (but not before running into some of the lair lads).

A few days later I msg her again, but there’s no response.  I try again a couple of days later, and again nothing. So once more I assume the trail has gone cold.

Then I’m out daygaming with Verity*, when I get a msg from her saying she’s in the city and we should get dinner. I txt her back to see if she’s alone or with friends, and its the former. The following day is a public holiday so I know she’s not working. Seems like a sure thing.

And it is. We grab some ramen, and the conversation goes like this:

Me: Lets get some wine

Her: Where?

Me: My place

Her: Your place? (uncertain look)

Me: If you’re lucky I’ll show you a bar on the way.

Her: No. Your place is ok.

 

Back to my place. Banged. Got my massage afterward**.

Dramatic re-enactment

Learning points: 

  • Street kiss close is possible.
  • Dominance can overcome a language barrier
  • Gaming FOBs is very different to gaming white girls. After banging a few of them, I’m starting to get the hang of it.

*Funny thing happened here that I will post about later.

**Funnily enough I’d wanted to get a massage on my lunch break that day, but there aren’t any good places near my office.

Imagery

Girls love to be taken on a journey. They thrive on feelings and thoughts, not on facts and figures like most guys.

Back when I was in high school, I always lent toward the analytical subjects – physics, maths and chemistry. Nonetheless, I was never too shabby in my English classes -in particular, I used to really enjoy creative writing. After spending seven years at uni learning about Mises’s stress, and the laws of gravitation, any creative ability has been firmly knocked out of me. A real shame, because I’ve found that its a great item to have in your daygame toolbox.

So lately, I’ve been trying to inject some visual imagery into my daygame sets, with occasional success. Some examples:

It must be exciting for you to discover such a foreign city. I felt the same when I moved to Sweden. All of a sudden, you’re in this huge, new world. I remember wandering around Stockholm, getting lost amongst the imposing skyscrapers, and sprawling streets. Everything is new. As you walk around, you overhear snippets of a language you don’t quite understand, and smell foods that you’ve never experienced. You feel the ebb and flow of the local people, from a culture far different to from own. I imagine you feel like a little girl, lost in world that is much bigger than you are. And its exciting, because in this new city, no one knows who you are. You are free to be whoever you like, to create a new identity for yourself.

Or:

One of my favourite memories of exchange was spending Christmas in the Swedish country side. You see, all my European friends had gone back to their hometown’s for Christmas. But Melbourne was too far away for me to do that. Instead, I had a Swedish friend invite me to spend Christmas with her family, out in the country. I was really looking forward to escaping from uni for a few days, and to see how Christmas would be celebrated in Scandanavia. I remember catching the train out to her place. I was sitting next to the window and watching the landscape pass by. The carriage was warm, but I could feel the cold air outside through the window. Outside, the landscape was mysterious. The sun was just starting to set, and we were passing by a dark lake, surrounded by pine trees. Part way through the journey, it began to snow. It was mesmerizing to sit in the warm train, watching the snowflakes slowly drift to the ground. Its a memory that has always stuck with me.

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Daygame seduction in progress

You should be adding in kino, and gestures at the correct places. Done right, as the girl becomes immersed in the world you describe, her eyes will glaze over, like a little kid being read his favourite bedtime story. Though you are talking to her on a busy street, she’ll feel that she’s been taken into a new world, where just the two of you exist.

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A new accomplishment

I’ve been really excited to update this journal after recent happenings. Life has been getting in the way of doing any writing however, as I’ve started trainng Jiu Jitsu in the morning before going to the office, and doing night (and weekend) classes, so I’m pressed for time.

Last week I posted that I’ve been having a bit of a bad time with daygame. Getting flakes, and not feeling the enthusiasm for hitting the streets and meeting some women. I’m happy to report that things are now looking again.

Did about 15 sets in the last week, and closed 8 of them, which is excellent. Also solid sets with cute girls that I’m looking forward to getting to know, however its not really possible for me to date 8 different girls; some will have to get the cut. 😦

Anyway, there’s one set from Thursday’s session that I wanted to post up, as I accomplished something I’ve been wanting to do for a while.

I’m out with a mate, and the daygame session gets off to a false start. I see this tall, leggy girl with the curly hair that my friends know I love; there is no stopping me, I know I need to approach (Fact 1). She’s waiting at the same traffic lights as me, and glances over at me a couple of time (Fact 2). As she finishes crossing the roads, I run over to approach, but she gives me an instant dismissal.

Considering facts 1 and 2, it seems that I’ve probably approached her before.

My wing and I wander over to Bourke St… to be hoenst, I’m choding out a bit, feeling the appraoch anxiety for the first time in a while, and time is running out before I need to get to a class. Then I spot a friendly looking Asian girl, taking her time on the streets and ambling around. Basically she’s giving the impression that she’ll be an easy stop, and a good warm up set.

Once in set, I find her English is terrible, and I’m not performing the best either. Thoughts of ejecting enter my mind, but I force myself to stay with it. She doesn’t seem to fully hook, and the vibe is friendly, not man to woman. But she’s showing no sign of moving off, so I’m wondering whether I should I take the number or hit the instadate? There are advantages to both. Then I remember two important facts

a) I’ve been planning on buying a boost juice, and
b) We are chatting not 20m from a Boost store

I have a degree in maths, so I put two and two together, and tell her to come get a juice with me. That’s using the ol’ noggin!

Once I’ve got my juice, I figure I may as well take her up to Croft Lane, to see the street art. There’s heaps of cool lanes around China Town to explore as a quick little date with a girl. Its great for foreign girls, who get to see a bit more of the world of Melbourne. So we’re checking out the graffiti, and a thought come into my mind. I’ve been with this girl for about 15min. She’s not IOIing, or giving me a strong gaze, but she seems compliant and has shown no signs of not wanting to continue the interaction. Its time for me to push things and go for my first street kiss close. There’s no one else in the alley, so I grab her hand, put my other hand on her lower back, and gently pull her in. Fully expecting her to pull back, I go for the kiss, and she’s into it. Yes! A new first for me. We make out a bit more, and then I need to head off to class, so we go our separate ways. I’m on a high, and that’s lucky cos it keeps me awake during me 3hr Energy Economics lecture (yawn).

Going from being complete strangers, to making out in the middle of the day, in sub 20minutes, is amazing for me. But it must be even crazier for the girl. I wonder what she’s thinking when she went back to her day? She’s going about her day, maybe buying some groceries, and out of the blue, some dude unexpectedly whisks her off to an alley for a mini sexual adventure. Must fry the brain circuits a little.

Stuck in a rut

Pick up wise, this year hasn’t been that fun for me. It started off with a bang (another one for you Brok), with me taking home two new girls in the first few days of the year.

Since then: nothing (bar some BJs off a girl that wouldn’t sleep with me if I wasn’t gonna commit). Its really dampened my enthusiasm for hitting the the streets. On top of that, when I have gone out to meet women, I’ve been getting lots of flakes.

Compare that to last year: Daygame really fun and novel – sometimes confronting too. Getting numbers frequently, and very rarely getting flakes. Sleeping with a new girl every few weeks. In short: Exciting and new

I feel that its my date-game that is letting me down.

Its damned frustrating, and its turning into a negative feedback loop:

Not getting laid on dates ——> Lack of enthusiasm for daygame ——> Girls sensing that I’m not that keen on them ——> Flakes

Throughout my life, there has been a theme of me becoming reasonably competent at my hobbies (skate boarding, climbing, making beer) during the ‘newbie gains’ phase, and then giving up at the first plateau. \

This will not be one of those times. I need to snap out of it, put in the hard yards, and overcome this.

How to do get that daygame vigour back? I suspect a couple of lays with some exotic foreign birds would do it.

I find some nightgame ideas that stick

I’m not real good at getting outside my head. I overthink everything I do. The long term solution is to get outside my head. A short term solution is this. There’s three videos down the page. Watch them. In summary, its all about intense eye contact, getting in a girl’s face, and subtle kino that makes a set sexual, without letting anyone else know whats going on. At the same time, you can talk about whatever boring shit you want. In fact, getting sexual verbally at the same time as being physically sexual is not recommended. So its good for me, because I can be my low energy, natural self, whilst giving girls this intense eye contact, and warming them up that way.

I didn’t realise that eye contact could be used that powerfully. Previously I’d just been making sure that I held it longer than the girl. So I tried out those Gambler techniques on Tuesday, and the effect was powerful. Fun! I could see the girl’s getting nervous, playing with hair and jewelry, whilst their eyes would lock with mine and spazz out. Really cool for creating a bubble.

Anyway, I was out on Friday night with some of the boys. First venue, I start talking to a mixed two set. Guy is Korean, girl is Japanese. They’re nice. Their English is terrible. Really terrible.

Me: What. Do You (points). Think. Of Melbourne? (indicates).

Her/Him: I am from Melbourne???

Hmmmmmmm.

The girl is well into me – its in the eyes – and the guy is nice but in the way. I tell them I’m going to find my friends. The guy turns away, and the girl just keeps looking at me, deep in the eyes. Thats a nice way to isolate. I lead her away from her friends, but still feel I’m not isolated enough to make out, so decide I’ll wait until later. So I talk to the guys for a bit, and then notice that some other Aussie guy is trying to chat up my Japanese girl. I pussy out on the AMOGing, but though he seems to be doing well, he eventually fucks off. So I go back in, isolate, and find she is not up for making out (with me). Nuts.

Eventually we find ourselves at long room. Its late, and disapointly, the calibre of girls is low. Before I get into my field report, I want to talk about the guys in long room. It seems to me that long room is full of mature aged, ripped, rich beta dudes, who have no idea how to pick up girls. This is in comparison to other bars like the Royal Saxon, which are full of poor, but cool, attractive, surfer type dudes, who definitely don’t wear suits. They may not be experts in game, but I reckon they offer far more competition to me than the rich guys in Long Room, whose sole tactics seem to be buying girls drinks and pulling off chodey dance moves. Embarrassing.

A year ago I would’ve thought these rich guys had it all. Little did I know.

Further, in Long Room, I always seem to get IOIs from girls that are their with a boyfriend. I wonder if its because they get with these guys for their marriage potential, but deep down, they’re more attracted to the surfer type dudes from the Royal Saxon who aren’t pussies around women.

Approach 1: Indian looking girl dancing with some friends. I grab her, and she immediately gets in my face and starts rubbing up against me. I go for the kiss very quickly (sub 30s), but she pulls away. She then kisses me  extremely briefly and walks back to her friends, not to be heard from again. Did I escalate too quickly here, or did I save myself from wasting my time with a girl who wouldn’t have been up for it at any point?

Approach 2: I lock eyes with a girl in a green dress, whose with her friend. I beckon her over, and she’s not the typical Long Room type. She’s too young, and somehow doesn’t seem as made up as the other girls in there.  More like a uni student. My mate distracts her friend, whilst I work on her. This set goes well – we talk about some boring bullshit while I stroke her back and get in her face, eventually going for the make out, which she’s enthusiastic about. In the end, either my girl, or my mates girl, gives the girl code for I wanna get out of here, and that’s that. I’m not sure who screwed it up, it may have been me as I was getting more aggressive with my girl. It doesn’t matter.

Approach 3: Stunning, tall half German, half Chinese girl. She wins the award for stunner of the evening. She was my height (pretty tall), and exquisitely dressed. Should escalated but pussied out despite the liquid courage I’d had… she was that hot.

Approach 4: Was fun. Some Indian looking girl who turned out to be married. My game was solid here. I teased her on being really posh and British, and asked her if she’d been drinking tea all evening. There was a lot of attraction here, but she was determined to stick to her vows, so I left her alone. Fun set.

There were a few more sets, but nothing worth writing about.

Night out with a redhead

Went out with a girl that I’d met down at ABC on a Thursday night sometime ago. She’s tall, leggy, slim, (and also ginger*). Despite her looks and height, she seems pretty nervous, and not used to guys hitting on her (more on this later).

So we meet up, and she’s really nervous. I’m feeling kinda nervous myself – I haven’t been out lately, and tall girls still intimidate me a little. On a whim, I’ve decided we’ll get some chow from a ramen joint (neither of us know what ramen is, but it turns out to be pretty good!), and then head over to E55 for some beverages. She needs to get up at 5am the next morning, so she says she’s only going to have 1 drink.

So whilst we’re having that 1 drink (though it turns into two), she drops the bombshell that no aspiring pua looking for a fast lay wants to hear:

Me: what are your friends like?
Her: I mostly hang out with people from church.
Me: Oh yeah
Her: Wow, lol, the look on your face! (Guess I didn’t conceal that well).

In fact, she says the Lord wants her look for a husband. So she doesn’t get out a whole lot, doesn’t meet many guys. Explains why she’s so nervous. The good thing is this makes it easy to impress her (she says we have a connection). The down side is I’m getting cockblocked by the Lord.

Overall, we had a good time together. I was a bit intimidated by her height, and so sometimes I didn’t articulate myself very eloquently. I want to work on that. By the end of the night, we were holding hands, and the evening had a pretty intimate feel to it, but she definitely wasn’t up for making out. Its not totally clear, but I think sex before marriage is not on for her. Nonetheless, she’s chill and I wouldn’t mind adding her to the social circle.

Things to work on
Need to increase composure around those hot, intimidating, tall girls. Even a couple of hours in to the date, I couldn’t really relax. This is also a problem for me when speaking in larger groups. In the future, I’m gonna socialise a lot more, to all sorts of people, and just practicing relaxing, being present, and saying whatever comes to mind without thinking about it. In that respect, analyzing what I’m saying from a pua perspective may be hurting me. Time to stop worrying whether I”m building enough rapport, need to spike attraction, blah blah blah.

*This fact is important, not because I”m particularly keen on redheaded girls, but because one of my friends has made it his mission to sleep with a girl with red hair this year (or possibly by April, I don’t recall). Its always satisfying to beat people at their own game. Competition is good for productivity buddy! :P